Mokihana Therapy │ Kelly Ellingson, MA, LMFT

Mokihana Therapy │ Kelly Ellingson, MA, LMFT
Additional credentials: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Training 1 & 2, Completed December 10, 2023, Trauma Recovery EMDR Humanitarian Assistance Programs | Approved Supervisor Designation Training, 30 Hour Fundamentals Course, Completed March 6, 2022, American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy | CBT+ Learning Collaborative Consultation, Completed June 15, 2020, Harborview Abuse and Trauma Center | Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Foundational Training, Completed March 18, 2020, Behavioral Tech: A Linehan Institute Training Company
Other Mental Health Related Services: Clinical Supervision, Consultation
Services (Medical, Cultural & Community Healing): Grief, Personal Development, Trauma Work
Religions & Spirituality: Spirituality
Ethnicity Provider Identifies As: Japanese, Korean, Multiracial, Pacific Islander
Qualifications:: 8+ years in practice | Licensed LMFT in Hawai'i and Washington | Pacific Lutheran University, Graduated December 2018, MA in Marriage and Family Therapy
Payments Accepted: American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, JCB, Mastercard, Visa
Cost per Session: $100-150, 150-$200, Sliding Scale
Accepted Insurance Plans: Out of Network
Communities Served: Cancer, Gay Allied, Lesbian Allied, Non-Binary Allied, Queer Allied, Racial Justice Allied, Single Parent, Transgender Allied
Age Specialty: Adults, Elders (65+)
Types of Therapy: Attachment-based, Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Dialectical (DBT), Emotionally Focused, Experiential Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Family / Marital, Family Systems, Grief, Multicultural, Person-Centered, Strength-Based, Systemic, Trauma Focused
Modality: Couples, Family, Individuals
Mental Health Specialties: Anxiety Disorders, Depressive Disorders, Grief, Racial Trauma, Sex & Intimacy, Trauma- and Stressor-Related Disorders
Systemic Specialties: Anxiety, Chronic Illness, Family Conflict, Grief, LGBTQIA, Racial Trauma, Relationship Issues, Stress

I’m passionate about working with those who grew up in a family where they were given adult responsibilities from an early age. You’re the one who took care of everything and everyone. Today, you’re still doing the same. You’re exhausted, but saying no or asking for help is uncomfortable, so you don’t. Instead, you stuff your feelings down, pretend like everything is good, and act like you have it all together. At times, it becomes too much, and you explode. Shortly after, you feel guilt, and you “help” more to ease it. Then you become angry, feeling disrespected and stuck. Hopeless. You want things to change and don’t know how to make change happen.

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I provide skills to help you manage your emotions and advocate for yourself, so you’re not controlled by others or your guilt. I can help you strengthen your boundary-setting skills, so others learn how to respect you in the ways that matter most. Working with me can help you know your value and your worth.

Together, we will move you toward your desired goals and empower you to make the changes you’ve been wanting. Call me, and let’s talk about how we can work together.

I’m an experiential relationship specialist with a trauma informed lens. My therapy style is integrative with a foundation in systems and relationships. What this means is that I am comfortable working with multiple people in the room, as well as considering those who are not. I look at the relationships you are a part of and consider how your experiences influence your emotions, perceptions, actions, and patterns of behavior. This also means that I am not a cookie cutter therapist. I believe my clients are not made from a single mold or a one size fits all. I create therapy to fit the client’s needs and meet them where they are at. You can expect sessions to be relational and collaborative. A human experience. One where I will get to know you as a person while working towards your desired goals.

Key methods used: Experiential, Emotionally Focused Therapy, EMDR and Trauma Informed

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